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KEYS TO A HAPPY AND HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP Each
page on this site contains one of the ten keys to help you have happy
and healthy relationships. Please check them all out and send your
comments and questions to billbenitez@mail2bill.com
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Relationship
Key # 6:
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Appreciation It is always a mistake to take your relationship and your partner for granted. Your relationship had its start because you saw something special in your partner. Remember those special things as time passes. Appreciate your partner and deal with any problems while remembering the all the special things about your partner. You can discuss his or her faults but always from a positive and constructive manner. Express all your feeling If there is something that you feel must be dealt with, express your feelings about the problem. Don’t label it as wrong or bad; instead tell your partner how the specific behavior makes you feel. This helps your partner to better understand why you are bothered by it and may well resolve the problem. It’s not that difficult if you just remember whom this great person has been to you and what you saw in him or her from the beginning. Use that as a starting point anytime you face problems and it will help you overcome them. Tell your partner how you feel about him or her. Do you believe
that your partner knows how you feel about him or her? Are you
taking it for granted that they know the level of love that you feel? I strongly
suggest
that you let him or her know exactly how you feel. He or she may really
love to
hear it from you first hand to be absolutely certain about your
feelings. You probably
like to
hear your partner say “I Love You.” Your partner
would definitely like to hear
it from you. So, don’t assume, tell your partner how you feel. Some people
find it
difficult to express emotions but it is important to make that extra
effort to
convey what you really feel even if it makes you uncomfortable. Everything you need to know about having a happy and healthy relationship is now available in my new book Good Relationships 101: Keeping Relationships Happy and Healthy. Learn all about it by clicking HERE. |